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The Best Sex Positions for Her and Him
Men and women often have different tastes or preferences for what
constitutes the best sex positions because of anatomy, biological urges
and the particular benefits each one offers. What works for him
may not necessarily work for her.
The best sex positions may vary among women as well. Everyone is
built differently and each woman's anatomy may be lined up or situated
in an exclusive manner. What is most pleasurable for one woman,
could be completely different for another woman. The way a
couple's anatomy lines up together will also vary from couple to couple
and impact how the couple determines what are the best sex positions
for them as a couple as well as the outcome of a particular position.
If you're looking for illustrated positions, a great book that focuses
on pleasuring both the male and the female is "The Complete Manual of Sexual Positions."
You can stimulate a different area of the woman's vagina with different
positions or with different angles of the same position.
Men are a little more universal in their preferences for the best sex
positions.
To adequately satisfy both partners a little give and take may be
necessary, where one partner will engage in positions that aren't their
favorite for a period of time to give their partner what they enjoy
most. A combination of positions is usually called for during each
encounter or you can focus on one partners pleasure during one session
and another's pleasure in another session from time to time as well.
It's also important for couple's to remember that most women don't
climax through intercourse because it doesn't provide enough
stimulation to the clitoris. The positions listed on this page
will increase her chances, but not guarantee it. If you and
your partner can't achieve orgasm during intercourse, this is nothing
to stress about. It's normal and a very common
occurrence. Just be sure to take the time and pleasure the
woman by other means, such as oral or with the use of sex toys. Using a vibrator on her
clitoris during intercourse is a great way to help her achieve orgasm
with you. If her hands are free, she can be the one holding
the vibrator, but if his hands are free, he can do the honors.
Another way to enhance position pleasure for both partners is with the
use of a wedge pillow.
It can be used for enhancing intercourse, anal or oral sex.
The Best Sex Positions for Him
Men like positions that allow them to thrust, achieve deep penetration
and have great visual stimulation. However, when you engage in
this type of position the male is likely to reach orgasm very
quickly. So it is best to participate in positions or activities
that pleasure the woman first before the ball game is over.
The Doggie Style or Rear Entry
position is probably the all time favorite for most men because it
allows him to fulfill all his desires at one time. He can thrust
with complete ease, reach deep penetration and the view is an
incredible turn on for him. To make this position more satisfying
for the woman, she can use a vibrator on her clitoris while he thrusts.
The Reverse Cowgirl gives the
"butt man" a glorious view. This is an adjusted woman on top
position where the woman straddles the man backwards. She is
facing his feet instead of his head and she leans forward with her
hands on his knees for balance.
The woman can also enjoy the reverse cowgirl position as it will
provide great g spot stimulation. Some women may even put this in
their list of best sex positions.
Standing at the Foot of the Bed
while his woman lies on her back facing him is a very exciting position
for the man because it makes him feel powerful, he has a great view and
he can lift her legs up and get very deep penetration.
This position can be made more satisfying for the woman if the man
kneels in front of her and gives her oral sex before penetration.
He can take her to climax and then she'll be much wetter and this will
enhance his deep thrusting .
The Best Sex Positions for Her
Women typically like positions that promote intimacy and make them feel
loved. They are seeking stimulation of their clitoris, g spot or
both. They also enjoy deep penetration from time to time.
One of the women's all time favorites is the Woman on Top because she's in total
charge of fulfilling her needs. With the right placement of her
hips the woman on top position can help her satisfy all her important
desires at the same time. The face to face contact gives her the
intimacy she longs for, by leaning forward a bit and rocking back and
forth on the base of his penis or pubic bone she can stimulate both her
g spot and clitoris.
The man also loves the woman on top because he enjoys seeing his woman
take the initiative and satisfying herself. It also gives
him a break from performing. Some men may put this in their list
of best sex positions.
The Missionary Position is
another of the best sex positions for the woman because it provides an
immense amount of intimacy. Adjustments can also be made in this
position to provide stimulation of the g spot and clitoris, by having
the male slide himself forward towards her head after he has entered
her vagina and rock back and forth instead of thrusting, this is also
known as the Coital Alignment Technique.
Men also enjoy the missionary position because they are in control and
it makes them feel powerful. It also allows them to have a good
deal of penetration.
Another one of the best sex positions for the woman is The Butterfly which combines the
missionary position with a pillow under the woman's buttocks and she
lifts her legs up in the air. Also very enjoyable for the man.
The Best Sex Positions for
Both of You
The Woman Sitting and the Man Standing
is a great sex position for both couples when both of you are already
highly aroused and ready for action. Place your woman on a
tabletop, bathroom sink or any stable surface. This position
provides the woman the face to face contact that gives her the intimacy
she desires and incites passion very quickly for both
partners. If she wraps her legs around him then he can
achieve the deep penetration he enjoys.
The excitement of doing it in a new place such as the top of the
kitchen table combined with the feelings of intimacy and closeness it
incites heightens arousal quickly. This position also allows for
stimulating of one another's breasts and nipples and intimate kissing.
The Spread Eagle, which is
basically a modified rear entry position where the woman lays on her
stomach, spreads her legs and the man enters her from behind, is
another one that qualifies in the best sex positions for both partners
category. It gives the male the control, power and freedom to
thrust as he desires. It also provides him with visual
stimulation. The woman can slide her fingers or a vibrator
underneath herself and stimulate her clitoris while he is
thrusting. Or the male can slide his hand underneath her and
stimulate the clitoris while thrusting.
He can also slow this pace down by stretching his entire body across
her backside while still inside her and pumping slowly. He can
nuzzle in her neck or nibble on her ears and have a few moments of
closeness and then pull himself back up and thrust again. By
pulling himself upwards a little and placing his hands up near her
shoulders and sliding his hips upwards a bit while still inside her and
"riding high" this can stimulate the g spot for her. She can
squeeze her legs together and give him even more pleasurable sensations
by tightening her vagina around his penis.
This position is also great for anal sex. All of the above apply
the same except that the male will be entering her anus instead of her
vagina. Once again she can stimulate her clitoris while he
penetrates anally and this can also stimulate her g spot and she can
have a clitoral g spot simultaneous orgasm and the tightness of the
anus around the penis shaft will give both partners very intense
pleasure.
For more great positions to pleasure your lover and spice up your sex life, you may enjoy a visit
to my new site Best Love Making Positions and Techniques.
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