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5 Ways to Have Better Sex in
2008
Was your sexual relationship in 2007 as exciting and satisfying as
you'd like it to be? Or are you like many couples who are seeking
better sex and more pleasure?
Has your sex life grown to be a little boring and routine? This is a
very common problem among couples but one that can be improved with a
few basic steps.
Start out the new year with enhanced pleasure, more excitement,
increased sexual satisfaction, better orgasms and deeper intimacy.
Take a look at some of the key factors to lead you to better sex in the
new year.
1. Impede Complacency
Complacency in a relationship is dangerous. It leads to loss of passion
and desire and encourages a routine that can quickly become boring.
It's very easy for couples in long term relationships to settle into
the comfort that security and commitment provide and become complacent.
Having better sex requires continuous mindful effort from both
partners. They must remain vigilant in their efforts to keep their sex
life fresh and exciting.
2. Promote Spontaneity, Adventure and Variety
To have better sex it is essential to be adventurous and spontaneous
and have variety. This keeps your relationship alive, interesting and
exciting. Enchant your lover with surprises and games that are certain
to keep you both satisfied and sexually content. Engage in sexual
activities, techniques and positions that are unique for you as a
couple.
A couple great ideas for promoting spontaneity and adventure are
sharing erotic emails or phone sex with your lover. Learn how to
dazzle your lover with the Erotic Emails
E-Class or make their desire for you blossom with the Phone Sex for Lovers E-Class
3. Prioritize
Make your sexual relationship a #1 priority. Because of the hectic fast
paced lifestyles that most couples are faced with, focus on the
relationship tends to get pushed to the back burner and sex often
becomes something they squeeze in hurriedly whenever they can find
time. Making time for quality sex is essential. When sex gets placed to
the side desire and passion fade away. The more often you partake in
sex the deeper your desire will grow. The relationship must be nurtured
to keep passion and excitement alive.
4. Deepen Intimacy
Sex without intimacy eventually becomes shallow and unfulfilling. You
may get away with it for a while, but eventually the relationship will
die, if intimacy is not nurtured. The deeper your intimacy is in your
relationship the more explosive and satisfying the sex will be. When
sex is explosive and mind blowing, it cements you to your lover in a
very powerful way and thus opens the door for more intimacy. Therefore,
intimacy and better sex feed each other in a reciprocal relationship.
5. Communicate
The most important element for not only having better sex but your
relationship in general is communication. If partners don't communicate
their sexual needs and desires to one another they can't be satisfied.
Be open, direct and honest about what you need. Also be specific and
detailed. Teach your partner where you need touched, when and how.
Demonstrate what level of pressure and speed you need. Let your partner
know what words you need to hear and when and how to say them. Discuss
the scenarios, techniques and positions that work best for your
satisfaction. Talk about your sexual fantasies. Share with them what
works and what doesn't work for your arousal and pleasure.
Want to continue to have better sex all year round? The Lovemaking
Smorgasbord is written for couples just like you to give you all
the
tips, techniques and secrets you need for a more passionate and
fulfilling sexual relationship.
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