Cunnilingus Techniques to Drive Her Wild
By Great Sex Coach Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Being skilled in a variety of your woman's favorite cunnilingus techniques will make you a real champion in the bedroom in her eyes. Oral sex is often favored over intercourse by the woman because of the clitoral stimulation and the intense orgasms she can achieve. For many women, cunnilingus is the best way and sometimes the only way for them to achieve orgasm.
Pleasuring her in such an intimate manner makes her feel special, loved and desired. It's very exciting for a woman to know that she is delicious and irresistible to her lover in this way. Seeing her lover devour her passionately and enjoy himself is a turn on like no other.
Every woman is different so the key to finding the best cunnilingus techniques is to learn what your lover enjoys most. If you were great at cunnilingus with another lover that doesn't mean you'll automatically be good with a new lover. The specific spot on the clitoris that contains the most intense pleasure for her may be located in a different area. Specifics such as speed, pressure,rhythm and timing varies from woman to woman.
It's very important to ask her what feels good and what she wants you to do. Take time and explore the territory together. If she's shy about telling you, then ask her to show you where she needs touched or read her cues. Pay attention to how she's breathing, how she's moving, the sounds she making and you should be able to get a good clue of what feels good for her.
(Sidebar) Women, in order for you to experience the pleasure of cunnilingus to it's fullest extent it's crucial that you communicate honestly with your lover about what you need to be aroused and reach climax. Don't be afraid to tell your partner explicitly what to do or guide him with your hands and moans of pleasure or displeasure. Help your partner develop their cunnilingus technique by teaching precisely what you need.
Your woman likes you to take your time. Don't just dive right into the vaginal area. Work your way there slowly and build her desire with anticipation.
The clitoris is a highly sensitive area and faulty maneuvering will result in an unpleasant experience. Proper care of the clitoris is exceptionally important for making your cunnilingus techniques successful.
Be gentle with the clitoris. Don't bite it. Too much of or the wrong kind of stimulation can be uncomfortable and not very enjoyable.
Be sure to let your woman know how much you relish her by telling her how great she tastes, how good she feels and how much you love burying your face between her legs. Praise her with compliments.
(Sidebar) Stroke your man's ego while he's performing cunnilingus. It's good for the relationship. Tell him how incredible he feels or that he's the best or how intense your orgasm was. But only if it's true! Don't fake it and don't lie to him. If you're needs aren't being met be sure to let him know that too in a loving way. The more honest and direct you can be, the better your lover will become with their cunnilingus technique.
Learn How to Drive Your Woman WILD with Pleasure! Unfortunately many men do not how to satisfy their woman adequately with cunnilingus, because they have learned from the wrong sources, tend to pleasure their woman in a manner that is pleasurable for them instead of her or they get fixated on her clitoris and forget other important areas.
Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques
- Tease her by loving the clitoris and then pulling away and loving other areas and then going back to the clitoris again.
- Lick from the vagina entrance in a straight line up to the clitoris and back down again repeatedly. You may feel a slight ridge along this line. This area is very sensitive like the clitoris and can be very enjoyable. Stimulating this area with your finger while licking her clitoris can enhance her orgasm
- Contrary to popular belief most of a woman's nerve endings in her vagina reside in the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Build arousal by moving your tongue in and out or around in circles at the entrance. Make love to her with your tongue or be a wild and hungry animal and devour her ravenously.
- Insert a finger or fingers inside the vagina while licking the clitoris.
- Use a vibrator on her while simultaneously licking and probing with the tongue and lips.
- Women enjoy having oral as a surprise also. Give it to her unexpectedly with unbridled passion.
(Sidebar) Women you can entice your man to give you oral in adventurous places and times by going without your panties and giving him a little flash here and there. He will be between your legs in no time. - Learn to combine a cunnilingus technique or two with g spot stimulation and you can take your woman to even higher levels of intensity and pleasure that will leave her breathless.
Regardless of which cunnilingus techniques you use, once you see she's about to reach orgasm, then keep at it exactly as you are until she does. If you change your position or rhythm you'll break the momentum and she'll lose her orgasm.
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