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Finding the G Spot
Clitoral orgasms are fantastic, but by finding the g spot and adding g spot
stimulation to your play you
can increase the intensity of pleasure and variety of sensations to
even
more fulfilling heights. Having an orgasm that is both clitoral
and
G simultaneously is as good as it gets.
One of the most popular and effective g spot toys that can
help you achieve both types of orgasm simultaneously is the Rock
Chick. It's very easy to use and is great for couples or
single women. It can help you in your quest for finding the g spot quickly and
easily and bring you the most amazing orgasms.
So where is the elusive G spot? Many people don’t know
where it
is and think finding the G spot is quite difficult. It is not
hard to find at
all
and when you do you will be very happy to make its acquaintance.
You might be able to locate your G spot by squeezing your PC
muscles. You
can locate your PC muscles by trying to stop your flow of urine by
squeezing
the muscles in your vagina. When stopping the flow of urine,
notice
which muscles you feel squeezing. You may feel a slight surge of
arousal in these muscles. That area where the arousal surges is
the
G spot.
Another great way of finding the G spot is by lying on your
back and
bending your
knees. Spread your legs and slide two of your fingers just about
an inch inside your vagina and then press upwards towards your belly
button.
You will find a spongy area that has ridges on it approximately the
size
of a quarter. Pleasurable sensations from this spot may extend
forward
to the edge of your opening and up to your clitoris. You can try
looking for your G spot when you are alone or it can be fun for you and
your lover to explore it together and find new paths of pleasure.
Once you succeed in finding the g spot, there are a variety of ways to stimulate
the G spot.
Manually, orally, with toys, with various positions of penetration, or
with anal sex. G spot stimulation can, but not
always, produce female ejaculation that is different from the typical
juices
or wetness produced from arousal or clitoral orgasms. It can even
gush out. It is a clear odorless liquid. It is not
urine.
Manually you can stimulate the G spot by thrusting, rubbing
or
pressing.
What works best is to press and rub simultaneously in a circular
motion.
You can pump, grind or thrust your hips with the movement of the
hands.
Something for the vagina walls to wrap around while contracting will
enhance
the pleasure of the G spot orgasm. This can be the penis, a
vibrator
or dildo or even something out of your crisper drawer in the
refrigerator.
A zucchini is very flexible and provides a good firm surface to wrap
around
and provide G spot stimulation.
Your lover can use one hand on your
G spot
and one hand on your clitoris for dual stimulation. Producing
orgasm
in both areas is profoundly pleasurable. Another incredibly
satisfying treat to give your lover is to lick,
suck and probe the clitoris orally while stimulating the G spot either
with
your hand, vibrator, dildo, etc. Again this produces
extremely
satisfying orgasms.
The angle of entry in anal penetration provides direct
stimulation of
the G-spot. Having something for the anus to contract
around
as well as the vagina walls during orgasm gives immense
enjoyment.
You can also stimulate the clitoris with your own hand while your lover
is penetrating anally, or they can reach around and stimulate it for
you.
A variety of positions are good for G spot stimulation such
as Doggy
Style and Woman on Top.
If your partner is away, adding G spot stimulation to your
masturbation
is a wonderful way of self-pleasuring. You can use a vibrator on
your clitoris and your hand on your G spot or vice versa. You can
slip one finger in your anus and give yourself double penetration while
rubbing your clitoris. Double penetration with clitoral
stimulation
creates earth-shaking orgasms, even when you are doing it alone.
Use these tips for finding the G spot and g spot stimulation and
you'll have a more intense pleasurable sexual experience.
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