Ah, yes the search for new ways to spice things up in the bedroom can
be quite challenging. Even the most creative minds run out of great sex ideas
ideas now and then.
Keeping the spice, passion or
excitment alive in a relationship is hard work, but here's a couple
hot ideas to make it easier for you.
Coming up with new great sex ideas doesn't always have to be so
difficult.
One of the easiest ways
to come up with some of your own is to
simply take some of the tried and true tips and techniques that are
effective for you and your partner and put a new spin on them.
Some examples might include:
Foreplay is one of the oldest tried and true great sex ideas which
can easily
become routine. Put some added sizzle in your foreplay by
extending your foreplay for an entire day. Engage in many
sensual, thoughtful rituals like a small gift, whispering loving or
naughty thoughts in their ear, a thoughtful compliment, cooking
breakfast, sensual non sexual touching, flowers, a love
note, a romantic dinner, dancing alone in the living room, a massage, a
bath etc. beginning in the morning and extending throughout the day
that ultimately lead to the lovemaking event in the
evening. Another great form of foreplay can be found
in the Naughty Diary.
We all know that using a variety of sex positions is one of the oldest
tried and true techniques. Try adding an assistant to your
positions
such as the wedge pillow to
create unique and exciting sensations and better orgasms. Sex
cushions can help you achieve flexibility not possible on
your own and thus give you the ability to try new positions. This
will
also add a sense of adventure and playfulness to your sex that will
create more
desire for one another and increase
sexual satisfaction. They're also fantastic for stimulating the g spot.
Sex toys are always a sure
bet to enhance pleasure and are becoming
more common place in the couple's bedroom. Use sex toys as a
special gift for your lover. Get them a new one for no special
reason at all. You can enrich the gift with an added love note or
naughty note describing what you'd like to see happen with this new
toy. Alternatively you can buy yourself a new toy and give your
lover a performance that shows them explicit illustrated directions on
how to make best use of the toy.
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More Great Sex Ideas
One of the best great
sex ideas is to use the element of surprise. We all love
surprises and nothing can bring bring back or create new excitement
quite like a sensual surprise. Surprise your lover with an unexpected
sensual ambush and there's no doubt you'll be having great sex tonight.
Try the "take it outside" surprise. Lovemaking outdoors is exquisite
pleasure. Some night when
the stars and moon are lighting up the sky like a torch, or even a warm
rainy night in summer when your lover is in the shower,
at the computer or in front of the tube, sneak outside set up a
blanket,
your favorite bubbly or sparkling water. Take your lover by the
hand and lead
them outside. Kiss them, pour them a glass of wine and undress them
slowly without words. Make love under the stars and the
moon or in the rain.
There are many possible variations to use with the "taking it outside"
surprise. Perhaps you can forego the blanket
and do it on the grass, the hood of the car or up against the
house. You
could also create an invitation that you make either by hand or on your
computer or buy a blank card at the store and insert your own message
that reads something like this,
"You are invited to a private party under the stars this evening,
please meet me in our backyard at 9 p.m. I have a delicious
surprise for you." Give this invitation to your lover earlier in the
day so that they can fantasize about it all day and increase their
arousal and desire by waiting with anticipation.
Another great surprise is what I call the "focus on your lover"
surprise. This
is where you spend an entire lovemaking session focusing purely on the
satisfaction and pleasure of your partner only. You prepare and
present them with a special lovemkaing event that caters to their every
need and desire. This may include a sensual movie, chocolate, all their
favorite oral moves, their favorite positions and words, their most
loved place or whatever the case may be for your lover. During
this event you don't allow them to pleasure you. Your pleasure is
coming solely from giving. Of course once you have presented your
lover with such exquisite satsifaction and satiated their sexual
desires completely they may be compelled to reciprocate and then and
only then are they allowed and welcomed with open arms or legs,
whatever the case may be!
The great sex ideas on this page are only a handful of examples,
the list you can come up with is
endless. Sit down and make a list of some your favorite sexual
activities and some of the things you know drive your lover wild and
put a new spin on them.
Twist them up a little, mix and match them.
Even your most effective tips and techniques can lose their appeal
after repeated use. You can bring back appeal to some of your
most
favorite tried and trues, by refraining from them for awhile and then
reinroducing them periodically and putting in a new twist. Twists
can give you a whole new menu of great sex ideas.
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