Great Sex Guides for the Sexually Adventurous Couple

They're a fantastic tool for couples to keep spice in their relationship. There is always something new to learn or ways to improve lovemaking skills with a little refining, sharpening or expanding.

It's also a great way to cultivate a sexually adventurous spirit.

I recommend that all couples pick up a new sex guide every couple months or so to keep your sexual reportoire fresh and exciting. Build a sex guides library and be sure to visit often alone or with your partner.

Sex guides can be used in many ways besides just sitting down to read as an instructional book. You can add more appeal to your sex guides if you don't think of them as instructions or lessons. But instead think of them as games and gifts that will improve the quality of your sex life.

Try some of these playful approaches and find new excitement in the sex guides you choose.

-If you find something especially arousing in a particular guide that you'd like to try, then leave the book laying for your partner to see on the kitchen table with their breakfast or morning tea. Or leave it on their towel to see when they get out of the shower.

-Surprise your lover with a new tip or technique you've learned.

-Find something together in the guide you've never done before and plan a date to put the tip or tehcnique into action. Make it a special lovemaking event with music, candles and champagne for more romance.

-Buy your lover a guide that covers a particular aspect that you'd like to explore more and give it to them as a gift.

-Go shopping at the bookstore with your lover. When you arrive, separate and each of you go your own way. Your goal is for both of you to find the hottest new sex guide you can come up with. It's a sensual competition to see who can find the sexiest, most arousing or hottest book . Don't share the book until you get home. The book doesn't have to be a sex guide per se, it can be lovemaking stories, erotic photography or a sexy novel. Whatever you both like. When you get home take turns trying new things from each book.

-Another variation on the bookstore game you can play is to arrive in the store separately and pretend you are strangers. Find the most sensuous, arousing book you can find and wander up to your lover. Attempt to pick them up by seducing them with pages from the book. Perhaps you stand next to them and read them something exquisitely naughty and rub against them. Or show them arousing pictures and ask them if they'd like to come home with you and try out some of these naughty escapades.

Regardless of what stage your relationship is in there's no doubt about it that sex guides can provide an eternal spring of titillating ideas to enhance your relationship.

By remaining open and willing to continuous learning and improvement of your lovemaking skills you'll develop a sex life that will be anything but boring or routing. Your adventures will keep your relationship fresh, passionate and exciting.

As your sex coach, I of course, have written several of my own sex guides.

If you're looking for some unique sex guides you might want to read more about my titles listed below.

Great Sex Guides For Adventurous Couples