How to Lick Pussy Like a Pro
By Great Sex Coach Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
A lot of men think they know how to lick pussy, but I'm sorry to tell you that many of you are misinformed. You may be surprised to learn that a large number of the women who come to me for sex coaching are dissatisfied with their sex lives because their men do not know how to satisfy them sexually.
These women tell me their men just don't know how to touch them, stimulate them or make them aroused in the manner they desire. Unfortunately, a lot of women never even discuss this issue with their lover. They just suffer in silence or lose interest in sex all together. However, many women tell me that when they try and talk to their man about this issue that he gets defensive, he just doesn't listen or he fails to see how important it is.
Additionally, when I talk with men that come to me for sex coaching, I often hear from that they don't understand what they're doing wrong, or what it is their woman needs. They often don't know how to navigate around the woman's anatomy and frequently don't know where key pleasure spots are or if they know where they are, they don't know what kind of stimulation is most pleasurable.
This problem exists for three main reasons. One of the primary reasons is that men have not learned their oral sex skills from an appropriate source. Many men rely on cheap porn videos to learn how to be a lover and this is a big mistake. Porn videos are made to stimulate the man's mind, not the woman's. They portray images and scenarios that are satisfying to the man, but leave a lot to be desired for the woman. Unfortunately most of what you see in the typical skin flick is not a realistic portrayal of what a woman enjoys and needs to reach satisfying orgasms. In case you didn't know, the women in pornos are faking it. You aren't going to learn how to lick pussy in the manner that is most satisfying for your woman.
The second reason is that when his woman tells him he's not satisfying her, the man takes it personally and feels inadequate. His ego gets hurt. He refuses to acknowledge that he might not be doing it right and isn't willing to learn.
Lastly, another contributing factor is that many women are not aware of their own needs. They only know that something isn't working right, but they don't know what it is. They don't know how to fix it. Many women don't understand how their own body works in regard to sexual arousal or they're afraid or embarrassed to say it out loud or show you.
The great news is that there is a very simple solution to all these problems. All you need to do is learn how to lick pussy like a pro and they will all disappear magically. If you educate yourself about the woman's anatomy and sexual needs then it won't matter if she doesn't understand it herself, you won't have to watch videos that teach you the wrong thing, and she'll be so satisfied with your spectacular oral lovemaking that she won't be complaining and you'll never feel inadequate or have a bruised ego.
Take matters into your own hands or the mouth as the case may be. Learn how to lick pussy from a reliable source and become an expert in the craft.
Three Pussy Licking Misconceptions
Three of the biggest misconceptions men hold in regard to licking pussy are in relation to the clitoris.
- Don't bite the clitoris. For most women, biting of the clitoris is not pleasurable.
- Don't suck the clitoris like a penis. A lot of men go after the clitoris in the manner that they like their penis sucked. This is not enjoyable for most women.
- Don't go straight for the clitoris. Many men think the clitoris is where it's all at, but that's not the case. Take your time getting there and stimulate all areas of the pussy.
- The most important point for men to know when learning how to lick pussy is that the clitoris requires special care and attention. You must know how to approach it in the proper manner or you may actually cause your woman discomfort. Develop the proper techniques and hone your skills carefully.
Additionally, you need to be aware that there is a lot more involved in bringing your woman to orgasm than just technique. Technique is essential, but there's a lot more to it than that. The woman is a complicated animal and a wise man knows that it is in his best interest to understand her as thoroughly as possible.
Why Do You Need to Know How to Lick Pussy?
- You'll be perceived as a magnificent lover in your woman's eyes.
- It's the supreme way to give your woman sexual pleasure.
- Women have the most satisfying and intense orgasms through oral stimulation.
- Most women can't achieve orgasm through intercourse.
- When you give your woman exquisite pleasure and make her feel special, it increases her willingness to give you the oral sex that you desire so deeply.
- You'll keep your woman's sexual desires alive and vibrant. You won't be hearing "I'm too tired, or I have a headache."
Learn how to lick pussy proficiently and you'll leave her weak in the knees and aching for more each time. She'll think you're the best lover she's ever had and that's exactly what you can learn in Lick by Lick.
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