Icy Hot
by Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Excerpted from "The Lovemaking
Smorgasbord"
During the hot and steamy dog days of summer, it can be a
real challenge
finding time to enjoy some hot sexual bliss with your Sweetie, without
sweltering to death. Here’s a great fun way to cool off and heat
up at the same time.
The easily accessible ice cube, not only cools off your
favorite beverage
but can also be transformed into a sensuous lovemaking assistant.
Here are some of the many ways you can incorporate the ice
cube into
your romantic and sexual adventures:
*Caress your lover with the ice. Hold it in your
fingers and trace
the contours of your lover’s body. Begin at their head and trace
their eyes, eyebrows, nose, face and lips. Then make your way down to
their
neck, breasts, chest, belly, abdomen, hips, legs and feet. This can be
a very sensuous seduction if done right by taking your time and
caressing
tenderly. You can increase intimacy by looking lovingly into your
lovers eyes now and then and double their sensual pleasure intensity by
licking and kissing the drops of water off their body as the ice melts.
*For another variation of the above caress, instead of using
your hands
to trace your lover’s body, try using your mouth to the hold cube.
*After attending to the entire body, take the ice to the
genitals.
Running the cube around the nipples will make them very hard and erect,
which makes for great sucking and licking. Then slide the ice
over
the clitoris, labia, anus, penis and scrotum. Many people find
the
contrast of hot and cold together to be a very pleasurable sensual
feeling.
Again you can lick the droplets of water off the genitals for added
pleasure
for both of you.
*Put the ice cube in your mouth while giving fellatio or
cunnilingus.
Again the contrast of the hot mouth and lips combined with the cold ice
can be a new and exciting sensation.
*Kiss your lover deeply and passionately with the ice cube
in your mouth.
Transfer the ice cube back and forth between the two of you with your
tongues.
*Insert the ice cubes into the vagina or anus. With
the cubes
inside you, rock and stimulate the G-spot, then you can the insert
penis
or suck the ice cubes or the melting water out of the vagina.
*Ice comes in many different shapes and sizes and can serve
a variety
of different purposes. Smaller ones can be sucked and chewed by
both
partners during the caress as a thirst quencher. You can even use
molds to make specific shapes, such as hearts for an added romantic
touch
or the shape of a penis for penetration. A larger cube such as
that
made in a heart mold will last longer and be good for those whole body
massages, if you do not want small cubes to munch on in the
process.
The ice penis can be inserted and used as a dildo, while your lover
caresses
your clit and or anus with his tongue. He can alternate between
the
ice dildo and his tongue and suck and lick your sweet juices off the
ice
penis.
*For more variety, you can add colors and flavors to your
ice by using
something like Kool-Aid, fruit juice or your favorite beverage to make
the ice cubes. Or perhaps freeze some bananas, strawberries
or blueberries and use them as ice cubes.
So you don’t need to let the summer heat interfere in your
sensual adventures
anymore. Ice cube play can be a fantastic way to cool off, seduce
and play on those hot sultry summer nights or days.
Not only that, it’s great at engaging all the senses and
presents us
with a fabulous new toy that can give us many evenings of pleasure
without
costing anything.
A few words of caution: Ice can be painful and cause
numbness
if too cold or if left in one place on the body for too long. It
may be best to let the cubes sit out a few minutes to lose some of
their
sting. Don’t apply ice that is directly out of the freezer on the
genitals, it could cause tearing of tissue; let it warm up and melt a
little
first. We all know what happens if we stick our tongue on the
freezer.
The clitoris is very sensitive, so you want to be extra careful in this
area. Keep moving as your caressing; don’t linger in one spot too
long. Alternate between rubbing the ice and licking or kissing,
so
contact with ice is intermittent. Not only will this protect your
lover from possible discomfort, but it will also make it more exciting
and sensuous.
Not everyone will find ice on or in their genitals a
pleasurable experience.
If you don’t, then be sure to express this to your lover and stick to
caressing
other parts of the body. As always communication and
sensitivity
to your lover’s desires and needs is necessary to ensure a satisfying
sensual
experience.
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