Love Making Techniques
By Great Sex Coach Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
The love making techniques you choose to use at any given time will depend on what your trying to achieve and whom your trying to pleasure.
Webster defines a technique as a method of accomplishing a desired aim. When making love we may have different desired aims with each lovemaking session.
There is no one best technique for everyone. What is the best love making technique varies widely from day to day and individual to individual. It also depends on whether you're pleasuring a female or a male. What works for one may not work for another. The best technique is to employ a variety of love making techniques at just the right time that are a perfect fit for you and your partners needs.
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Developing love making techniques is essential to being a great lover, but what's most important for great sex is to know your partner's needs and desires. Learn what arouses them and what techniques are most effective for them.
The more you know your partner and understand their needs the better you can satisfy them.
It's also equally important to know yourself and your own needs and desires, because if you don't know what it is that pleases you then you can't teach your lover and your sexual needs will go unmet.
Another crucial aspect to keep in mind when learning love making techniques is that men and women have very different needs when it comes to sex .
Women typically like the long meandering road to ecstasy and men often like the fast lane so each partner has to make concessions to satisfy the other.
Women are very tactile and emotional. They love to be touched and the emotional connection with their partner is important for them to have great sex. What goes on outside the bedroom will impact greatly what goes on inside the bedroom.
Men are very visual beings, their initial excitement often comes from what they see.
Men are a little simpler to please, put something sexy and alluring on, whisper naughty words in his ear, drop to your knees and give him some mind blowing oral and he'll be putty in your hands.
Men don't innately know how to pleasure a woman. They must be taught. Men tend to try and pleasure their woman by doing things that feel good to them, but this doesn't work, because a woman's needs are very different.
With that being said there are a variety of love making techniques that many couples commonly find enhance not only their sexual pleasure but their relationship as well.
Here's some of the best tried and true love making techniques. Each technique is expanded on more fully by clicking on the highlighted link.
Adequate foreplay is fundamental to a woman’s sexual satisfaction and her capacity to achieve climax. It's necessary on both the biological and emotional levels.
It's also beneficial for male sexual problems such as premature ejaculation or impotence. Foreplay deepens and enriches the relationship on all levels for both partners.
Satisfying your woman orally is essential for giving her the best pleasure. Most women can't reach orgasm with intercourse alone, because it doesn't provide adequate stimulation to the clitoris. Cunnilingus is one of the best ways for women to reach orgasm.
Become an expert at pleasuring your woman orally and you'll have her aching for you and craving sex more often.
It's certainly no secret to anyone that men love fellatio. But what it is often misunderstood is the seriousness of this need and how important it is to the relationship.
There's probably no better way to make your man sexually happy and keep his eyes from wandering than pleasuring him orally on a consistent basis. You can make yourself irresistible to him.
Every good lover should know how to give his woman g spot satisfaction. It has the power to increase the intensity of her pleasure to much higher levels.
Learn to combine this with clitoral stimulation and give her a g spot orgasm that is out of this world.
If you haven't enjoyed g spot stimulation before you may want to take a look at finding the g spot first.
Giving your lover a sensual massage can be a fantastic appetizer or it can be a full course meal. It can be a gift you give to your lover, a special occasion treat or a way to show appreciation. It can be focused on one partner at a time or something you do simultaneously. Sensual massage is a fantastic way to get the juices flowing and set the mood. You can use sensual massage to bring your partner to higher levels of arousal and make intercourse more satisfying and intense.
Also known as the man's g spot is a technique that has the power to provide intense heightened pleasure and mind blowing orgasms.
You can help your man experience a new realm of sensual sensations and pleasure never reached before.
Check back here from time to time as I'll be adding more love making techniques in the future.