Lovemaking Tips for Her and Him

By Great Sex Coach Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.

All couples need a banquet of lovemaking tips to help keep their sex life fresh and exciting. Keeping passion alive in a relationship takes work, it doesn't just happen on it's own. No matter how imaginative one is the average couple tends to run out of ideas from time to time.

Love Making Tips

If you'd like to have a great collection of tips, techniques and advice at your fingertips to bring more passion into your relationship, you may want to check out my book "The Lovemaking Smorgasbord." The Lovemaking Smorgasbord is written by (me), your host and Great Sex Coach, Cynthia Perkins and designed for couples just like you looking to keep their sex life fresh and passionate.

One of the most important lovemaking tips that I can share with you is the importance of variety. Studies reveal that sexual boredom is one of the leading causes of infidelity. The couple needs to be diligent to keep boredom from setting in. To combat boredom there must be variety.

Another most important love making tip I'd like to share with you is the importance of having fun in your love making. Everyone loves to have fun. When you have fun with someone it strengthens your bond to them. You enjoy them more and want to be around them more often. It keeps sexual desire alive and promotes passion.

Four Great Lovemaking Tips for Variety and Fun

Sex Games
Now a great way to promote variety and have fun at the same time is with the use of sex games. Your choices of sex games are abundant. Take a look at some of the best sex games for couples.

Sex Toys
Another love making tip that kills two birds with one stone. Sex toys are fantastic for keeping variety alive and having a good time together. Your choices are almost endless. I give you some great ideas with my list of personal recommendations that are best for couples on my sex toys page.

Sex Furniture
Again another wonderful ingredient to stock in your lovemaking pantry for more variety and having fun together. With sex furniture you can have unlimited sex positions available at your fingertips any time.

It's not only great fun to always be trying something new, but it brings you closer together in more ways than one. On the sex furniture page you can learn all the different kinds of furniture available and what positions you can achieve with them and the benefits to your relationship.

Have Sex Outdoors
Having sex outdoors is also an excellent tool to have fun together, add variety to lovemaking menu and be an adventurous lover. Nature provides you with an endless source of opportunities and choices, and it costs you absolutely nothing.

Lovemaking Tips Especially for Her and Him

Men and women have very different sexual needs. It's important for couples to understand these differences in order to pleasure one another adequately and have a fulfilling sexual relationship.

Learn how to push all her right buttons and the secrets to make your woman swoon with pleasure at how to make love to a woman.

Find out what really makes a man tick and make yourself irresistible to him at how to make love to a man.


Communication is the foundation for good sex for both males and females. A lot of couples struggle with communication in general and even more so when it comes to matters of sex. Conquering the skill of effective sexual communication is the best step you can take to safeguard your relationship from many of the destructive forces that many couples face.

Additionally, you can take communication another step further and discover the compelling seductive power your vocabulary can hold, when you learn how to talk dirty. Your words can be used to deepen your sexual and emotional bond, heighten arousal and desire and skyrocket your lover into a blissful orbit.

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