Oral Sex Positions

By Great Sex Coach Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.

I believe the most effective oral sex positions are ones that allow the receiving partner to focus purely on their own satisfaction. It's an ultimate act of unselfishness and makes your partner feel special and cherished.

It also allows them to be completely absorbed in their pleasure without having to tend your needs, which enables them to experience more intense enjoyment.

As the giver of pleasure, if you're not distracted by your own needs, you can devote all your energy into gratifying your partner which will satisfy them more fully.

This means that you will either take turns pleasuring one another or be giving an oral delight to your lover as a solo gift.

If you're looking for a way to explore some exciting new positions for oral sex, a great way to do this is through the liberator wedge. It allows you to manipulate your body into unique positions that can't be achieved on your own.

Men's Favorite Oral Sex Positions

There is probably nothing more sexy to a man than to be standing and look down at his lover on her knees while taking his penis into her mouth. He can reach down and touch her face, caress her hair or for a wilder ride, pull her hair back and pump her mouth.

Another favorite for a man is to have himself propped up on a pillow while his woman crawls between his legs on all fours and takes him in her mouth.

To drive him even more wild, look in his eyes as you run your tongue up his shaft and over his head.

You can also light his fire by sitting in a chair or the couch etc., while he stands in front of you. Lined up mouth to penis.

Another exciting approach is for the woman to lie on her back on the bed with her head over the edge and he stands beside the bed. Some women may be a little uncomfortable with this position as it feels a little domineering, so be sure to let your woman know how much you appreciate her. Express a little extra affection and don't get too rough.

Now before you have your man in his favorite position, learn how to give him the best blow job in the world, and you'll have a man who worships and adores you.

Women's Favorite Oral Sex Positions

One of the most revered avenues for the woman to receive oral sex is for her to relax on her back, knees bent, with her legs spread open wide. Her partner will access her genitals from the front on all fours. She can run her fingers through his hair. Hold his head in her hands and rock against his face.

A very exciting alternative for both male and female is for the male to lie on his back and the woman to straddle his head with her knees and lower herself to his mouth. In this position she has a lot of control over positioning and pressure. His hands are free to caress her body. Grab hold of her buttocks and pull her in closer.

It can also be very arousing for her to bend over something like a table, chair, coffee table etc. and the male bends down behind her and pleasures her from behind. She can also get on her knees on the bed and he can get behind her.

The male can also get on his knees for his woman and let her stand above him. She may need to lift her leg up on a stool or chair to allow easier access.

Before you get your woman in her preferred position, learn how to give her ultimate oral pleasure and be the best lover your woman's ever had.