Learn How to Give the Best
Oral Sex
Being a skilled oral lover is a very
important component of
a couple’s
sexual relationship for both the male and the female. There are
few
things more pleasurable for either man or woman than to be savored,
devoured
and satisfied orally by their lover. Oral sex is one of the most
intimate gifts we can give one another.
Since women
are more
likely to orgasm during oral sex rather than intercourse, it is often
the
women’s preferred type of sex. Being able to pleasure your woman
orally is essential to her satisfaction. Knowing how to give your
woman exquisite oral pleasure, will leave her aching and craving
you.
Giving oral to his woman is also one of the biggest sources of arousal
for a man. Her aroma, flavor and vulnerability turn him into a
hungry
lion.
Use
These Oral Sex Tips to Blow Your Man's Mind
It is no
secret that
men enjoy fellatio immensely, but sometimes women underestimate the
importance
of this. Okay, some of you women may get angry with me for this
next
statement, but it is a reality that women must face. If you do
not
give your man oral sex, the chances are very great that he will get it
elsewhere.
It is one of his most basic sexual needs. There is probably
nothing
that would make your man happier than oral sex on a regular
basis.
If you provide this for him, you will be irresistible to him.
Why is
fellatio so
important to a man? The penis is the most sensitive and
vulnerable
part of the man’s body. A male’s identity is strongly associated
with his penis. His semen is like a rare nectar that he wants to
give to you as a gift. It makes your man feel loved, accepted and
received when you give him oral sex. When you refuse it, he feels
rejected. One of the best ways to show your man how much you love
him and keep his eyes from wandering is to give him fellatio.
If you have
an aversion
to fellatio, it would be wise to seek someone to discuss this with,
unless
your partner feels the same way and it is not an issue in the
relationship.
There may be many reasons why you don’t like to give oral sex that can
be overcome. You may feel it is disgusting or dirty, or you may
feel
used or disrespected. You may view it unconsciously as something
that bad girls do. These are some of the inaccurate messages that
women receive growing up and sometimes they become internalized.
By talking these things out with a professional, perhaps you can undo
the
conditioning and learn to enjoy oral sex.
It may also
be helpful
to try and think about how much you love your man, how sweet and
precious
he is to you, as you give him fellatio. Try to see the penis as
an
extension of who he is. Show him how much you love and adore him,
how very special he is, by focusing on pleasuring his penis. If
it
is the flavor that is distasteful to you, you can try drinking a tasty
warm tea prior to sex, or brushing your teeth immediately before for
the
nice minty aftertaste it leaves in your mouth. Another option is
to coat the penis with something flavorful or to suck on a breath mint
while performing. If it is the semen that is disliked, you can
try
keeping a glass of your favorite tasty beverage nearby to drink
afterwards,
or keep the breath mint in your mouth during and after
ejaculation.
Men, you
can help your
woman become more willing by making sure you are fresh and clean.
You also need to show your lover respect and appreciation for her
act.
Assure her that you love and respect her before and after
fellatio.
This should be the case in every relationship, but for the reluctant
women
a little extra effort will be required. If you have an aversion
to
cunnilingus, all the above can be applied to you as well, to help you
find
it more enjoyable.
Simply
performing the
motions of oral sex is not enough, one must be effective and know their
woman’s or man’s secret buttons. One must also enjoy it. It
is an incredible turn on for both men and women to see the delight in
their
lover’s face and actions as they pleasure them or to hear their moans
of
enjoyment. Pay attention to your lover’s body language and read
their
signals. Adjust your pressure, speed, direction and rhythm
according
to their desires and preferences.
A favorite
approach
for the man is to lie between the man’s legs while he is on his back
propped
up on a pillow so he can watch, or kneel on the floor between his legs
while he stands above you. To really drive your man wild, look
him
in the eyes occasionally as you’re going up and down his shaft.
Delight
in your lover’s penis. Worship it. Show how much you enjoy
it with moans of pleasure and desire. Use your hands, tongue and
lips. Alternate between stroking with your hand and stroking with
your mouth. While stroking with your hand, suck, kiss or lick his
head. Run your tongue up and down the length of his shaft, then
caress
and roll the testicles around tenderly with your tongue. The most
sensitive areas of the penis are on the underside and along the coronal
ridge, which is along the edges of the head.
Caress his
shaft and
head with your mouth, then engulf his head with your mouth and slide
down
to the base. Take it all in, baby! Every now and then tell
him
how beautiful his penis is and how much you love it. It may be
very
enjoyable to your man if you allow him to hold onto your head while you
deep throat him or perhaps pull your hair a little bit. Not mean
and vicious pulling, but down and dirty pulling. It can also be
very
arousing for the woman to have her hair pulled. It brings out the
animal in both sexes.
Once down
to the base,
pull out to the tip nice and slow with deep suction, then go back down
again. Increase your pace with each dive. It can provide
exquisite
pleasure for your man to rub his anus or insert your finger in his anus
while you are licking and sucking him.
Very
Important Oral Sex Tip When Pleasuring
Your Man
When pleasuring your man
it
is very important to know that you should swallow at least part of the
time! It can be insulting and is usually a turn off for your man
if you act repulsed by his semen. It is a loving gift to delight
in your partner’s ejaculation by swallowing, or at other times, a fun
alternative
can be to watch the ejaculation shooting in various places such as on
your
breasts, face, buttocks, abdomen or wherever you prefer and then
rubbing
and caressing the semen on one another. Once he has come, it can
be very pleasurable for some men to continue sucking and licking him
tenderly
while he is soft.
You will
keep your
man very satisfied and happy if you provide him with spontaneous
unexpected
oral sex. Give him a surprise wake up call in the morning by
slipping
between his legs, or wake him up from a nap with a little oral delight,
or while he’s watching football or driving the car. Nothing will
make your man happier than you being his little cockhound.
Keeping your man satisfied and surprised with oral pleasure will keep
him
faithful, devoted and enchanted by you.
Make
Your Woman Crave Sex Even More with These Hot Oral Sex Tips
The most
effective
way to pleasure your woman is to have her lie down on her back and
approach
her from the front. Lie between her legs. The parting of
the
thighs is very erotic and should be done sensuously with some
kisses.
Don’t be in a hurry to get to the clitoris. It’s more exciting
for
the woman if you take your time. Kiss, nibble and lick your way
down
her thighs. The inner thigh and the area where the leg meets the
pelvic area are usually a very sensitive erogenous spot. Tease
her
a little by taking your time. Delight in her and remember to let
her know how much you enjoy her. I know for myself that seeing my
lover enjoying himself is as arousing as the sex itself. Make her
feel cherished. Nuzzle in her bush or if you prefer shaved,
nuzzle
or kiss the bare mound. Now run your tongue between her pussy
lips
and slowly make your way to the clitoris.
It is
important to
learn what your lover likes because the clitoris is very sensitive and
the wrong type of stimulation will not be pleasurable. Some women
need the hood pulled back with the clitoris fully exposed and other
women
need the hood left in place. Or, she may need you to go back and
forth between the two. The hot zone on the clitoris can be in
different
areas for different women. It may be on the left or may be on the
right or somewhere in between. She will know, so let her show
you.
If she does not know, then explore it together and find her wonderful
little
pleasure zone. This is the spot you need to rub, lick and
stimulate
for her to bring about clitoral orgasm.
Once you
know what
she prefers, slide your tongue back and forth or up and down.
Start
out slowly and then increase pressure and speed. Get her very
excited
and then slide your tongue down between her vagina lips again and
explore
the depths of her cavern with your tongue while rubbing her clitoris
with
your finger. But don’t stay away too long, bring that
tongue
back up to the clitoris and resume licking. Then slide your
finger
inside her vagina and locate her G-spot, press and rub it
simultaneously
as you continue to lick her clitoris. This will drive your woman
wild and create earth-shaking orgasms for her. You can increase
her
pleasure even more by slipping a finger inside her anus as she
approaches
orgasm. Learn how to be an expert at pleasuring your woman orally in
The Art of How to Perform Cunnilingus E-Class
Make love
to your woman’s
vagina, but also make love to her body and mind first. Once you
have
brought her to orgasm it is very easy to bring her there again by
repeating
the process, you will be adored by your woman if you do. She will
be mesmerized by your oral lovemaking skill.
When
pleasuring your
woman or man, focus your complete concentration on them. Make
them
feel special. Make them feel like there is no one else in the
world
you enjoy more. It’s also a good idea to shower or wash genitals
before oral sex for both males and females, as this will ensure a clean
and fresh aroma and flavor. Although, this may not always be
possible
when providing unexpected delights. As always communication is
essential
to making oral sex its best. Let your lover know what you prefer,
guide them lovingly to touch you as you need touched.
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