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Does Penis Size Matter, Really?
Does penis size matter? Ah, that seems to be the burning question on
every mans mind at one time or another. You would think that with all the advertising
we see for penis enlargement that it is the most important thing in the world.
But that is not the case. Most of these companies are simply trying to make
money by preying on one of men's biggest vulnerabilities and fears- the size
of their penis.
In addition to that, they are promoting
an unhealthy, inaccurate perception in our society that having a really
big penis is one of the most important factors to sex, relationships
and
women. This simply is not true. Penis size is not really
that important.
Having said that, I know that every time I say this to a man
he ignores me or thinks it's a bunch of bull. Men are so concerned about
penis size that they just don't want to hear anything contradictory. So if you're one of
those men and you insist on using some sort of penis enhancement, I recommend
that you at least use one of the best products on the market called
Dr. Joel Kaplan's Penis Pump.
Dr. Joels Penis Pump is the only government
approved penis vacuum on the market. The FDA backs up the manufacturers claims that
it increases penis size by 1 to 2 inches and increases girth up to 25%. Dr. Joel
is the leading authority on penile enhancement. There are lots of penis pumps
out there, but many of them are very poor quality. Don't waste your money on a bunch of
penis enlargement products that can't back up their claims. Dr.Joels Penis Pump is of the highest
quality possible and patients actually see results.
However, if you'd like to learn what's more important than penis size, then please read on.
So, back to the question at hand, Does penis size matter?
All this focus on penis size enlargment is making men feel
inadequate and
uncomfortable. It is falsely promoting a view that a big penis is
what makes a man desirable. It is also setting up an ideal and
expectations
for men that are really impossible to live up to. The average
size
of an erect penis is 5-7 inches, some people are bigger than this, and
some people are smaller than this. Whatever you have been born
with,
that is the way that nature intended it, and therefore, it is adequate
and satisfactory.
These advertisements are also giving men the
inaccurate perception
that they must increase their penis size because that is what women
want.
This is absurd. What is most important to a woman is what kind of
lover you are, what kind of person you are, how you feel about her and
how you treat her. Being unselfish and meeting her needs sexually
and emotionally will make you a great lover in her eyes.
If you
have
a penis that is 10 inches long and you are selfish or don’t know how to
meet your woman’s needs, then your size is completely irrelevant.
You do not need a big penis to be an incredible lover and satisfy your
woman. Yes, for some women more girth and length do feel
incredibly
good, but there are many ways she can achieve this with her lover.
If she does enjoy the feel of more girth and length than you
have been
endowed with or if you both want to play and experiment, then you can
always
add something such as a dildo, vibrator or even something like a
zucchini
out of the fridge to give her the added sensation. The zucchini
is
firm, but flexible, and is a fantastic penis surrogate.
Doing
these
things together will enhance the experience for both of you.
Using
one of these options on her vaginally while stimulating her clitoris
orally
will give her exquisite pleasure. Adding a variety of positions
and
being adventurous such as doing it in a new location will also be very
pleasurable.
You can also purchase a cock ring from
most any adult toy store to add to your sexual adventure. The
penis
ring placed along the base of the penis restricts the flow of blood out
of the penis and can increase size and hardness. It can also
prolong
the erection. Many men find that they experience a more intense
pleasurable
orgasm with the use of a penis ring.
But most important to remember is that intercourse is only
one way of
satisfying a woman. The majority of women cannot orgasm with
intercourse
alone, regardless of how big the penis is, because it does not provide
sufficient stimulation to the clitoris. Pleasuring your
woman
with your hands and your mouth can be just as satisfying, if not more
so,
than intercourse. Being attentive to your woman’s body and mind
will
enhance her experience. Making your woman feel loved, special,
cherished,
appreciated and desired will make sex great for her.
So in summary to the original question, Does penis size matter? No, it clearly does not.
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