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Sex Tips for Women
Yep as the saying goes “Men are from Mars and women are from
Venus.”
Where as men are very visual beings, women are very tactile and
emotional.
Men like meat and potatoes, women like the all the fixings on the
side.
If you want to give your woman great sex then being aware of her
special needs is the essential first step. Follow these sex tips
for women
and you can't go wrong. If you're looking for tips to
pleasure your man visit the sex tips for
men page.
Sex Tips for Women - Foreplay
Women love to be touched and emotion is important for great
sex.
What
is going on outside of the bedroom is just as important for a woman as
what goes on inside the bedroom.
She is more attracted to a man who listens to her.
If a woman
feels listened to she will feel important and valued and her desire
will
be greater. One of the most important issues for a woman is to be
heard. Being heard and feeling valued will increase her
feelings
of intimacy with her lover and enable her to be free and uninhibited in
her lovemaking.
One the of the most important sex tips for women that men
need
to be aware of is that for the woman the path to orgasm is just as
fulfilling as the orgasm
itself and the
path is also important for enhancing her orgasm experience.
If you'd like a great collection of sex tips for women to
keep at your fingertips you may find "The Lovemaking
Smorgasbord" to be just what you're looking for.
A woman wants to be understood and feel important.
Remember what
she tells you about her life. Be interested in her life, not just
her sexuality. Take an active interest in her what’s going on in
her life. She will want you more.
Women are excited visually as well, but they are excited by
seeing passion,
desire, love, sensuality and the look of desire on their lovers face or
look of affection in their eyes.
Soft and gentle touching of as many parts of the body as
possible elicits
great passion for a woman. Take your time and savor her.
Take
the long meandering road to orgasm. Cherish and adore her body
along
the way.
Kisses are an important component for expanding your sex
tips for women knowledge base.. Deep passionate kisses are one
of the biggest
turn ons. Looking into her eyes or touching her face while
kissing
her can increase arousal of the kiss. Kissing parts of the
body such as the neck, belly, inner thighs, buttocks, pelvis area
surrounding
the vagina, fingers and maybe even feet for some people can heighten
passion.
Before licking or kissing between her legs it will be more satisfying
to
her if you kiss and nibble the other parts of her body surrounding her
vagina. Don’t just dive right in. Tease and entice
her
with your tongue.
Prior to love making time, hug your woman on a frequent
basis, put your
arm around her, hold her hand, tell her you love her. Women to
like
to hear “I love you” or something close to that. If it has not
reached
that point yet, then express your care for her, tell her how important
she is to your life. Holding hands in an embracing , locking way during
foreplay and lovemaking can be very arousing as well. It should
be pretty clear by this point that many of the sex tips for women
really have nothing to do with sex at all. It's about
relationship and connection for the woman.
Sex Tips for Women - In the Bedroom
When you get her into the bedroom, the sex tips for women
that are most effective are quite different than a mans. Tell her
how good she tastes or smells and
feels.
How you love her pussy and how you love to make love with her.
Use
language that is comfortable for her. If tits, cunt or fuck is
offensive
to her then she will be turned off. If it’s a turn on for you
then
you should discuss this outside the bedroom prior to sex and find
mutual
words that are arousing or you could agree on taking turns on saying
what
the other one wants to hear. Find out what she prefers to call
her
anatomy and the sexual experience. There are different styles of
language for different people. Some people may want to hear
this:
“I want to make love to you,” and another person may want to hear
this:
“I want to Fuck you” and another may want to hear: “I want you so
bad”.
It is important to know which of these levels is exciting to your
lover.
Caress her with words.
Tell your woman you want to know what pleases her. You
may have
to coax her a bit to get her to tell you, but she will feel important
and
valued that you are interested. Pay attention to how she responds
to each of your touches, kisses and movements and learn what she
likes.
Ask her to show you what satisfies her. Pay attention to cues
such
as facial expressions or moans of passion. Remember what
she
tells you and what you observe and give it to her
regularly.
It will be irritating if she has to tell you repeatedly. Both
male
and female lovers should learn what pleases the other and eventually
know
it like the back of their hand.
Enjoy your woman, be present in the here and now, be into
what your
doing at the moment, completely focused in the here and now, desiring
her,
passionately pursuing her. Seeing your passion and desire
for
her will turn her on and unleash her desire. Let her know how much you
desire her with words or passionate actions. Let her know
how
much you want her.
Tease her a little bit by building up anticipation.
Make love
to her whole body, not just her vagina or breasts! Another one of
the most important sex tips for women that I can share with you is
this: "There is
nothing
that is a bigger turn off for a woman than a lover who immediately
begins
penetration without tending to her body."
Let out your sounds of pleasure. Moan, describe what you are
feeling
or tasting. This is very exciting for both partners. Men
and
women love to hear how you enjoy them. This can be especially
arousing
while giving them oral.
Become a master at oral pleasure. Most women are not
able to orgasm
by penetration alone. It is important for both partners to
understand this so that neither one of you is feeling inadequate if it
is not occurring. Penetration usually doesn’t provide the
necessary
stimulation of the clitoris and G spot needed to orgasm. There
are
particular positions you can do to help this but by far one of the best
ways
for a woman to orgasm is orally.
Whereas the man wants to have his penis worshipped, the
woman should
be treated like Goddess. The whole woman, not just her sexual parts,
and
not only during lovemaking time, but in all aspects of the
relationship.
Make her special, cherished and valued and she will reward you quite
nicely.
Make her feel adored and wanted. Keep your woman feeling wanted,
respected, desired, important and valued at all times and you will have
a woman full of desire for you and you will heighten her sexual
satisfaction
greatly. She will also have a lot of willingness to satisfy
your needs, because she is so attended to and satisfied. Keep in
mind that some of the best sex tips for women really have nothing to do
with technique or your penis.
Sex Tips for Women - After the Sex
After the love making it is important to stay with your
partner both
physically and emotionally for at least a period of time. You
should
not be jumping out of bed immediately after orgasm. Some holding
and cuddling afterwards are necessary. This can be done in
intimate
silence or it is also good for you to tell her how wonderful it was or
how good it felt or what was particularly enjoyable for you about
her.
Of course the woman should also express her experience to the male as
well.
This is also a good time for deep emotional sharing which will bring
you
closer together. If you don't get this aspect nailed down, then
all other sex tips for women you have put into action will lose their
power.
You can also continue enjoyable sensations
by continuing to kiss and touch softly her neck, shoulders, thighs,
face
lips etc. Soft, gentle touching of the breasts or between and
around
the legs, but not with the intention of stimulation. Just enjoy
the
sensations and bask in the pleasure of the experience you have just
shared.
Afterplay reinforces how a woman feels about the
experience. If
the
sex is great, but there is no afterplay it will reinforce a negative
experience
for her and this will impact whether she will do it again or how
receptive
she will be to you the next time. How she perceives the
experience
will affect her desire for you. If reinforcement is positive she
will see you as a good lover and her desire for your will be
greater.
Afterplay is just as important for the woman as is foreplay. It
completes
the act of lovemaking.
If your woman uses email on a regular basis, you may find
that sending her erotic emails is another great way
to keep passion and desire alive.
We are all very unique in regard to what feels good and
satisfies us. Not all sex tips for women will work on every woman
in the same way. If your partner tells you something that
contradicts what I have said
here,
then always listen to them and follow their desires.
Communication
is the most important factor for sexual satisfaction and intimacy in a
relationship.
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