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Sex Tips for Men
The man is a very different animal than the woman and if you
want to give your man great sex it's essential to understand these
differences. Use any of these sex tips for men and you'll have
your man mesmerized by your sexual allure. If you're
looking for tips to pleasure women, visit the
sex tips for women page.
Men are very visual beings. Their initial excitement
often comes
from what they see. So provide your lover with lots of visual
stimulation.
When wanting to elicit desire, wear sexy outfits or walk around naked
in
front of him. Take naked or provocative pictures of yourself and
put them in his lunch or leave them on the mirror or some other
strategically
good spot. Go without a bra and panties and tell him you don’t
have
any on. Call him at work and tell him you aren’t wearing any,
thus
giving him a great image in his head to entertain throughout the
day.
Dress up in a very hot outfit and present your lover with a dance in
which
you slowly strip for him, by the time you are done he will be more than
ready for you.
In contrast to women's desires, the most important thing for
a women to keep in mind when learning new sex tips for men is that the
man likes getting to the action right away. He likes it if you
jump immediately into the naughty talk and grab his crotch.
Sex tips for Men - The Power of Your Words
The mind is a sex organ. For men the mind can be one
of the most
important sex organs. Talk erotic to your lover. Talk dirty
to him. Be descriptive. Tell him how hot and horny you
are.
Tell him how badly you want him. If you are not comfortable with
certain words then try to find words that are satisfactory for both of
you or try talking the way he wants you to part of the time and the way
you prefer at other times. Keep in mind that a woman should never
be forced to speak in a way that is disrespectful, derogatory or
humiliating. Men like to hear how good it
feels
for you and they like to hear compliments about their penis and their
performance.
Give them lots of assurance by telling them how beautiful there penis
is
and how great it feels. Tell him a fantasy story in his ear as
you
are making love.
For more sex tips for men that will rock your man's world
check out the "The Lovemaking
Smorgasbord." "
Sex Tips for Men - The Oral Factor
Lots of fellatio. Men love fellatio, blow jobs,
sucking or whatever
they prefer to call it. Give it to them frequently. It is
particularly
pleasing to occasionally give fellatio in surprise situations and
expect
nothing in return. Remember that the head, the area around the
head
(corona) and the underside are the most sensitive to stimulation.
Be sure to tell your lover how great he tastes while
giving him fellatio. Also be sure to swallow at least some of the time
and to delight in your lovers semen. It is insulting to your man
if you act repulsed by his semen. It is also a turn off.
Add a penis ring (cock ring) to your play. A penis
ring restricts
the flow of blood out of the penis and can intensify and prolong the
erection.
A penis ring can also intensify sensations and increase size and
hardness.
Many men also experience a more intense and pleasurable orgasm.
You
may also use your fingers to apply pressure around the base of the
penis
to give the same sensations. The penis ring can also work similarly to
Viagra in that it can help men with erectile difficulties achieve and
maintain
erections with no side effects.
Providing anal stimulation while giving fellatio can
intensify
his satisfaction and
bring new heights to his orgasm experience. While giving fellatio
reach
between your lovers butt cheeks and rub his anus. This frequently
will bring them close to orgasm and if you continue to rub the anus
while
they orgasm it can create very intense orgasms. Anal stimulation
at other times can also be very enjoyable, such as when he is
penetrating
you or as foreplay. It can be very arousing to lick the anus when
giving fellatio. Licking the anus while stroking the shaft can be
another source of intense pleasure. Keep in mind that before any
anal play the area should be washed thoroughly. If penetration of
tongue, fingers, toys or penis occur in the anus they should be washed
again before inserting in the vagina. Bacteria in the anal area will
cause
infection in the vagina.
Sex Tips for Men - Keep His Eyes from Wandering
Give your lover variety and spontaneity. This is an
extremely important component when mastering sex tips for men, because
it helps keep his eyes from wandering. As the saying
goes variety
is the spice of life. Be adventurous and spontaneous.
Present
your lover with new and exciting techniques, positions, games, and
places
on a regular basis. This really is a key factor in maintaining
your
lovers faithfulness. If your lover is never bored he will never
have
a reason to look elsewhere. (unless sexual addiction is present which
is
another issue and would need to be addressed) Sexual boredom is
one
of the main factors that causes unfaithfulness. This will also help you
both to continue to enjoy each other and have fun. It will keep
your
intimacy alive with a sense of playfulness.
Worship your lover’s penis. Okay I know this sounds like one
of the
silliest sex tips for men you've ever heard,
but there
is nothing that will make your man feel more special. Look, learn
and examine his penis as if it were under a microscope. Get to
know
every little inch, nook and cranny. Cherish it, love it and treat
it special at all times. Pay close attention to your lovers cues
that he will give you by facial expressions and sounds when you are
pleasuring
him. Take note of what he enjoys and give that to him on a
regular
basis. Concentrate on the areas you learn are most pleasurable
for
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Sometimes a man just wants a Fuck. This is another one
of the most important sex tips for men you can acquire. There are
times
that men would
just like to have the wild, uninhibited, dirty talking, down and dirty,
nitty-gritty fucking without all the other tendings to that women
enjoy.
Give that to them once in awhile. But also remember that this
should
only take place some of the time. There should also be plenty of
times when you are making love. There should be a balance of the
two. If your lover wants to do nothing but fuck then there is a
problem
with intimacy here that needs worked out.
Many men’s nipples are very sensitive and find that having
them licked,
sucked or touched softly can be very arousing. Try running
your fingernails down his back as you suck his nipples. He will
shiver
with desire. Or stroke his shaft while softly kissing and
nibbling
on nipples.
Be the initiator sometimes. A man loves it when the
woman lets
him know how much she wants him and goes after what she wants.
Tell
him you must have him right now and be a little forceful. Tell
him
you want to be made love to (or if you prefer harder words
(Fucked)
or whatever words feel right for you and turn him on. Take him to
an unexpected place, such as a back road in the car and take him right
there on the spot or show up at his office unexpected and take him on
his
desk.(or anyplace where you won’t get caught) Show him that
you're not afraid to try new sex tips for men and you'll light
your
man’s fire for sure.
Ask your lover what he likes, what he enjoys, what feels
good, what
would enhance things for him and what he needs. Find out what he
thinks is sexy, desirable, erotic and a big turn on. Get to
know your partner inside and out. Don’t guess at what you think
he
wants or needs. Listen to what he tells you and remember it
so you fulfill his desires.
Sex Tips for Men - Keeping it Unique
Write an erotic story for your lover. You can write
about something
you would like to do to them, or recount an especially hot special time
you had together or write about one of his favorite fantasies.
You
can leave the story as present for him somewhere unexpected or read it
to him in bed right before making love.
One of the most exciting activities for a man is to watch
his woman
satisfy herself. Let your lover watch you caress your own
body.
Touch your breasts, squeeze them, lick your own nipples, run your hand
between your legs, and masturbate for him. Women who master
sex tips for men such as this, keep their man mesmerized and
devoted. Another great way to keep your man intrigued with you is
to tease and play with phone sex.
Take your mans fingers and one by one take them into your
mouth and
lick, kiss and suck them tenderly. Look him in the eyes now and
then
as you run your mouth up and down the fingers simulating oral
sex.
Slide your fingers between your legs and coat them with your juices and
then stick them in his mouth. He will hungrily lick them off and
this will excite him immensely to taste and smell you and the
sensations
produced while he is licking and sucking on your fingers will be
exciting
for you as well.
We are all very unique in regard to what feels good and
satisfies us.
If your partner tells you something that contradicts my sex tips for
men suggestions then listen to them and always follow their
desires.
Communication
is the most important factor for pleasuring your partner.
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