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Keep Your Relationship Fresh
with Quickies
Quickies
are a great way to keep excitement and spontaneity in your
relationship. They have a variety of benefits to offer loving
couples.
*For the busy couple it's a fantastic way to keep connected sexually
when you don't have time for an entire lovemaking session.
*They can be a great source of fun and adventure that will make you
enjoy one another even more.
*When one partner is not in the mood but would like to meet the needs
of their partner, quickies are convenient and easy.
*Having a quickie when you have only a short period of time or in
places where you risk getting caught adds a lot of excitement that can
heighten arousal and intensify climax.
*During summer when it's too hot for those long, savoring, full body
contact encounters, quickies provide you with the opportunity to
fulfill your sexual desires quickly.
*Men love quickies and women can put a real sparkle in their man's eyes
with a quickie surprise.
If you're looking for some other great ways to keep your relationship
fresh and exciting, many couples find that the use of erotic emails will work magic.
Send your lover an erotic email and invite them for a quicky.
Another way to enjoy a quicky is phone sex with your lover. If you and your
lover haven't had time for lovemaking or you've been missing your
partner today, give them a call and have a quicky on the phone.
Some women tend to dislike quickies because it makes them feel
neglected or not fully satisfied, and these are valid feelings if you
have nothing but quickies in your relationship.
But if you use the quicky sporadically and recognize all the many
benefits it can offer, you can find a new appreciation for it.
The quicky should only be used intermittently. Be sure to keep balance
in your relationship. Quickies should be mixed in with lots of
long sensuous lovemaking sessions as well as some mind blowing, raw and
carnal sex.
Most women take a while to reach orgasm so with a quicky she may not be
able to achieve orgasm, but that doesn't mean it can't be
pleasurable. Lovemaking doesn't always have to end with an
orgasm. The sexual energy, sense of adventure, emotional
closeness and other pleasurable physical sensations can be enjoyed just
as well.
However, if you'd like to increase the chance you can orgasm with a
quicky there are a few things you can do. If you're the one
initiating a quicky you can arouse yourself by caressing your body,
running your fingers briefly across your pelvis area or inner thighs or
caressing your breasts. You can prepare by planning the quicky
ahead of time and then masturbating without bringing yourself to
climax. Get yourself right to the brink and then stop. Then
approach your lover with a quicky.
If your lover has approached you unexpectedly with a quicky this
approach won't work, and so for that session you may not be able to
achieve orgasm, but allow yourself to experience and fully enjoy the
excitement and other sensual sensations you may be having. Or perhaps
the excitement of your lover wanting you so deeply and unexpectedly can
help heighten your arousal and pleasure.
With the right position you can also stimulate your own clitoris as
your having the quicky and bring yourself to orgasm.
Now that you're ready for a great quicky here's a few ideas of fun
places to have them.
*In an elevator on your way to an appointment.
*In the car on your way out you hop on his lap in the front seat or in
the back. Or pull over at a roadside rest, or back road.
*At the park on a picnic table your lover sits inconspicuously on the
table and you stand in front of him, lift your skirt slightly and lower
yourself down over him.
*In the back of a restaurant or club you're out dining or dancing and
slip off into a back room, closet or hallway.
*At a movie theater it's probably best to engage in oral sex for this
one, but if you're especially bold and adventurous you might try
sitting on his lap.
*The bathroom of your favorite restaurant, shopping department or even
your own house.
*In an alley you and your lover are walking through on your way to a
restaurant or a store.
*At the office on the desk, conference table, chair or against the wall.
*In a dressing room your lover got you all excited trying on a sexy new
outfit,
*Pop in on your lover in the shower unexpectedly.
Now men remember, when your woman gives you the pleasure of a quicky be
sure to make up for it next time with a long and sensual lovemaking
session that satisfies all her desires.
Women you can wear a skirt or dress with no panties to make access
easier for quickies.
Another benefit of quickies is they are a great to way to engage in a
lot of different sex positions, which can also add more excitement to
the encounter.
For example in the elevator can be against the wall, in the car can be
the woman on top of your lap or laying down in the back in seat, on the
picnic table in the park can be done with the male standing or the
female bent over, at the office can be standing against the wall or
bent over the desk, in a dressing room could be the female sitting on
your lap or standing.
So now that you know regardless of why or where you engage in quickies
it's
a sure fire way to keep your relationship alive and exciting.
Surprise your lover today!
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