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Great Sex Positions
Looking for great sex positions is one of the most popular activities among adventurous
couples. The search for new and exciting positions seems to be a
never ending quest fueled with intrigue and curiosity and for good
reason. What position or positions you choose to use can make the
difference between great sex and mediocre sex.
Sex positions are very important to many aspects of the sexual
experience. They greatly impact what kind of sensations you'll
experience, what level of pleasure you can achieve, which type of
orgasm you can reach and how intense that orgasm will be, what level of
intimacy you'll share, how satisfying the session will be and
what degree of fun, excitement or adventure will transpire. A
great way to turn an oridinary position into a great sex position is
with the use of the wedge pillow.
Some positions are good for tender lovemaking while others are more
exciting and adventurous and yet others are great for raw and carnal
fucking. What is pleasurable for the male is not always as
pleasurable for the female and vice versa. So what constitutes the definition of great sex positions depends on the gender and individual preferences. To learn what's most
exciting for your mate you may want to visit the best sex positions for her and him.
Although there's all this interest in finding great sex positions, couples report
that they frequently fall into a routine and use the same position over
and over. This is a pattern couples need to avoid to keep their
sex life fresh and exciting. If you're looking for a great
illustrated manual of positions, I highly recommend "The Complete Manual of Sexual Positions."
Becoming a master of a variety of great sex positions is one of the finest
ways to keep variety and a sense of adventure alive in your sex
life. All good lover's use positions skillfully to provoke
excitement passion, playfulness and most importantly to keep boredom
from setting in. A couple who doesn't get bored with each other
is a couple who doesn't have wandering eyes.
So how do use great sex positions to have better sex?
How you use your positions is just as important as which position you
engage in. A skilled lover knows how to move with ease from one
position to another at just the right time for each partner. It's
as if there is an an unspoken language that develops between the lovers
that guides them intuitively through a flawless series of satisfying
movements.
That old saying "practice makes perfect" needs put into effect
here. One cannot become an accomplished positioneer by reading
books or looking at pictures alone. Yes they are great
educational aids as well as stimulating, but they must be into action
for the deep learning to be achieved.
Knowing how to go with the flow of positions is largely dependent upon
learning to read cues of your lover and knowing yourself. It
requires being fully present in the moment and in sync with your
partner.
When deciding which sex position to use you want to take into account
factors such as your level of health, body structure, flexibility, age,
body size and how much time you have available. Don't be afraid
to go outside your comfort zone
and experiment, but also be respectful of any boundaries or limits you
may have.
Another crucial element is to ask yourself,"what is it you'd like to
achieve" for this particular sexual adventure?
Would you like to make love or are in you in the mood for a good
fuck? And yes, loving passionate couples do and should be fucking
once in a while. By fucking I mean, that raw, down and dirty, carnal,
level that fulfills our wildest animalistic desires.
Would you like to pleasure her or him more, is she wanting a g spot
orgasm, a clitoral orgasm or both? Are you in the mood to
let loose and thrust like a wild animal or take your time and smell the
roses? Do you want to rub and stroke against her or do you want
the deepest
penetration possible? Is it going to be a quickie or an all nighter?
Depending on how you answer these questions will determine what great sex
positions to use and when. Different sex positions stimulate
different parts of the vagina for the woman and produce a variety of
different pleasurable sensations for both partners.
Some sex positions like the doggie style can stimulate her g spot,
while the proper angle when the woman is on top, or a modified
missionary will stimulate the clitoris and the g spot together.
If the man is looking for deep penetration then doggie style is the one
for the job.
If you're wanting to make tender passionate love and savor intimacy
you're not going to be engaging in doggie style; for this the standard
missionary is the best choice for the goal.
If you're in a rough or wild mood your not going to be engaging in
missionary; something like doggie style is called for.
If you'd like a little of both, then you could start out in the
missionary position and then switch to woman on top and then a little
doggie style.
For a quickie, standing up against the wall or bending her over a chair
are good choices.
You can also achieve different goals and levels of pleasure by changing
your pace and angle of thrust.
The man's erection can be prolonged by changing positions. If
you're approaching the "point of no return" then slow down your pace
and thrust, then switch into another position that doesn't allow deep
penetration. Rub and rock gently to maintain your erection, once
the urge to climax passes, then resume more active thrusting as desired.
It's important for couples to keep in mind that although excelling with great
sex positions is an important component for a satisfying sex life, it's
only one of many ingredients. There are many other aspects just
as significant for having great sex and you can learn how to
incorporate them into your relationship by checking out "The Lovemaking Smorgasbord - A Couples
Menu for Feeding Passion & Fidelity."
When experimenting and searching for great sex positions try not to get too focused on
achieving orgasm as this will hinder the discovery process. Being
together, having fun and experiencing some new adventures and
sensations can be just as enjoyable. Be adventurous and create
some new positions of your own. You might surprise yourself with
what you can come up with and the pleasure you can achieve.
For more great tips and techniques about positions you may enjoy a visit
to my new site Best Love Making Positions and Techniques.
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