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Soul Satisfying Sex
Any activity that is soul-satisfying is something that
nurtures our
soul, makes us feel whole, complete, satisfied, euphoric, deeply
connected
with the universe, God, or whatever your spiritual connections.
So,
soul-satisfying sex is sex that provides us with these wonderful
feelings.
Soul-satisfying sex can only occur with people we are connected to
emotionally,
intellectually, physically and spiritually. This includes our
connections
to ourselves. If you are connected to that person on all
these
levels then the more satisfying the sex will be. Sure we can have
good sex with someone we are only attracted to on a physical level, but
that is not fulfilling for our souls. It will only satisfy
us physically and leave us empty emotionally and
spiritually.
We usually feel like we are missing something in our life and
unfulfilled.
The thing we are missing is deep connections to another person and soul
satisfaction. Although I personally am not comfortable with
casual sex and would much rather go without than be with someone I’m
not
connected to, it does not mean it is bad or wrong if you have sex
without
it. There may be times in your life when you are not able
to
find a soul-fulfilling connection, and still feel the need to meet your
sexual needs, and that is okay as long as it is always respectful and
both
parties are comfortable with that, but I believe striving for deep
connections
should be the goal.
The deeper our connections with the person we are having sex
with, the
more exciting, satisfying and ecstatic our sex will be. You will
experience sex that takes you to a higher level of consciousness and
cements
you to your lover. Not only will you have a physical orgasm, but
you will have a body, mind and spirit orgasm, which is an orgasm like
no
other. You will experience total euphoria, complete bliss and
heights
of passion like you never experienced before. Penetration becomes
a union of the souls. The ultimate spiritual high is achieved
when
engaging in soul-satisfying sex.
Deep connections with other people may be very
frightening. It
means we can be hurt and we may be afraid to expose our true selves to
others. Thus hopping from partner to partner can become an easy
way
to avoid intimacy and the risk of being hurt, but ultimately what
happens
when doing this is that you short change yourself from experiencing the
deepest, most passionate, mind blowing sex one can find as well as
profound
complete satisfaction and fulfillment emotionally, physically, and
spiritually.
You will prevent yourself from reaching your highest potential sexually
and as a human being.
Another component of soul-satisfying sex is
communication. In
order to really connect with another we need to communicate. In
order
to communicate we need to have some type of a relationship. The
more
we get to know someone the more we share of ourselves. Great sex
requires communication. Most of us find it difficult to
communicate
intimately with a stranger. We need to foster a relationship
before
we communicate too much. Therefore the deeper our connections
with
our lover the freer we will be to communicate our desires, needs,
wants,
fantasies etc. Thus the more two lovers understand each other the
better they will be able to satisfy one another. The more we
communicate
the better the sex will be and the connection will deepen. The
deeper
the connection the more we will communicate. Thus it becomes
reciprocal
with each feeding the other. The greater the intimacy, the better
the sex and this will create bonds so intense that desires for each
other
and desire and willingness to please each other will be raging.
One of the most wonderful aspects about soul-satisfying sex
is that
it has no limits. When two people continue to deepen their
intimacy,
connections and bonds to one another they can always reach a new height
of ecstasy that was not reached before.
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