The #1 Tip to Spice Up Your Sex Life
By Great Sex Coach Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
So what is the #1 tip to spice up your sex life? "Cultivate an adventurous sexual spirit."
Incorporate this one tip into your life and you'll continually experience more satisfying, exciting sex.
Why is this important? Because sexual boredom is one of the leading causes of infidelity. If you have an adventurous sexual spirit, boredom will never set in. It also promotes passion, and more passionate sex is more satisfying sex.
An adventurous sexual spirit fosters desire and desire feeds desire. The more desire you create, the more often you'll have sex, and the more often you have sex, the deeper desire will grow.
It strengthens your bond with your lover. Lovers who share adventure together grow closer and experience deeper intimacy, which in turn leads to better sex.
To spice up your sex life and keep it spicy, cultivating an adventurous sexual spirit needs to become part of your daily routine. A part of who you are.
Two wonderful ideas you can try if you haven't already is to have phone sex with your lover and to exchange erotic emails.These two tips either together or alone are great for nurturing an adventurous sexual spirit.
If you're unsure how to go about having phone sex with your lover or writing erotic emails, I've put together two great sex guides to help you out. And here's a secret link available to readers of this page only to get a free Ebook. You can get both the Phone Sex Lovers guide and the Erotic Emails guide for the price of one by clicking this secret link.
How Do You Cultivate an Adventurous Sexual Spirit?
- Feed your sensual mind on a regular basis. Allow your mind to wander and entertain sexual thoughts and fantasies. Dress or undress to feel sexy and sensual. Listen to sensual music and read sensual material.
- Be spontaneous. Surprise your lover with unexpected pleasures at different times of the day in places you don't usually have sex. If you have sex in the morning then have sex at night or in the middle of the afternoon.
- Dazzle your lover with a sensual ambush in the shower, the car, in the office or at a picnic in the park. Wherever the urge may strike you.
- Be bold, uninhibited and playful in pursuit of your lover.
- Touch, caress and rub against your lover periodically throughout your days. Make this an integral part of your relationship. This is not a move for sex. The goal is to keep sparks smoldering with a loving touch on the cheek, a caress on the arm, a pat on the back, a lovetap on the buttocks, a brush of the thigh against thigh or breast against arm. Send them out for their day with a loving reminder of your desire for them.
- Have frequent sexual rendezvous. Make time for quality sex a priority in your life.
- Be open to experimenting with new tips and techniques. Be on the look out for exciting ideas that are new to you and your lover. Spice up your sex life with creative and personal ideas.
Cultivating an adventurous sexual spirit will spice up your sex life and keep it spicy indefinitely. You'll not only have great sex but your relationship on the whole will grow richer and more satisfying.
You can find a lot more exciting tips to spice up your sex life and feed your adventurous sexual spirit in "The Lovemaking Smorgasbord - A Couple's Menu for Feeding Passion & Fidelity."