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The #1 Tip to Spice Up Your Sex
Life
So what is the #1 tip to spice up your sex life?
Incorporate this one tip into your life and you'll continually
experience more satisfying, exciting sex.
Cultivate an adventurous
sexual spirit.
Why is this important?
Sexual boredom is one of the leading causes of infidelity. If you
have an adventurous sexual spirit, boredom will never set in.
It also promotes passion, and more passionate sex is more satisfying
sex.
An adventurous sexual spirit fosters desire and desire feeds
desire.
The more desire you create, the more often you'll have sex, and the
more
often you have sex, the deeper desire will grow.
It strengthens your bond with your lover. Lovers who share
adventure
together grow closer and experience deeper intimacy, which in turn
leads to better sex.
To spice up your sex life and keep it
spicey, cultivating an adventurous sexual spirit needs to become
part of your daily routine. A part of who you are.
How do you cultivate an
adventurous sexual spirit?
-Feed your sensual mind on a regular basis. Allow your mind to
wander
and entertain sexual thoughts and fantasies. Dress or undress to
feel
sexy and sensual. Listen to sensual music and read sensual
material.
-Be spontaneous. Surprise your lover with unexpected pleasures at
different times of the day in places you don't usually have sex. If you
have sex in the morning then have sex at night or in the middle of the
afternoon.
-Dazzle your lover with a sensual ambush in the shower, the car, in the
office or at a picnic in the park. Wherever the urge may strike
you.
-Be bold, uninhibited and playful in pursuit of your lover.
-Touch, caress and rub against your lover periodically throughout your
days. Make this an integral part of your relationship. This
is
not a move for sex. The goal is to keep sparks smoldering with a
loving
touch on the cheek, a caress on the arm, a pat on the back, a lovetap
on the buttocks, a brush of the thigh against thigh or breast against
arm. Send them out for their day with a loving reminder of your
desire
for them.
-Have frequent sexual rendezvous. Make time for quality sex a
priority
in your life.
-Be open to experimenting with new tips and techniques. Be on the
look
out for exciting ideas that are new to you and your lover. Spice
up your sex life with creative
and personal ideas.
Two wonderful ideas you can
try if you haven't already is to have phone
sex with your lover and to
exchange erotic
emails.These two
tips
either together or alone are great for nurturing an adventurous sexual
spirit.
If you're unsure how to go about having phone sex with your lover or
writing erotic emails, I've put together two great E-Classes to help guide you. And
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Cultivating an adventurous sexual spirit will spice up your sex life
and keep it spicy indefinitely. You'll not only have great sex
but your relationship on the whole will grow richer and more
satisfying.
You can find a lot more exciting tips to spice up your sex life
and feed your
adventurous sexual
spirit in "The Lovemaking Smorgasbord
- A
Couple's Menu for Feeding Passion & Fidelity."
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